Having the right intentions means that no matter what our differences are we can still acknowledge the miracle in the soul standing across from us, and recognize that others exist and are worthy of existing. If we could all strive to have that mindset, the world would be a better place.
I think sometimes, the only way to get past challenges in life is to yell at your doubts, your hurts, your apprehensions. They seem to quiet down when the self-affirming voice decides to be louder than the demons knocking at your door.